Is this website discriminating?
Is this website discriminating against older feminists?
This debate is now closed although if you still want to comment you are welcome. The site has now changed from “young UK feminism” to “contemporary UK feminism”. Please click on the link for an explanation.
This site is aimed at “young UK feminists.” I originally envisaged it as a
place for young feminists to connect, to share ideas, debate and comment on UK
culture. In December I was emailed by a reader who was concerned that, in
targeting young feminists, this website is discriminating against older
I would very much like to hear what other readers think about this issue
and I would encourage you to send me your comments. Is targeting a
particular group necessarily discriminating against another group? Is it
valid to aim this website to young women or is it wrong to do so? Please
contact me with your thoughts and
next month I will add your comments here.
The text below is the reader’s original email (in italic) and my comments
are included as I replied to the email. The reader responded to an “advert”
which I posted to a newsgroup to try to spread the word about this website.
To see the latest responses to this, click
My main reason for mailing is to ask you if you can define the
word “young”. Do you have a cut off point at which you won’t accept articles and
if so, how do you know what a person’s age is? Are you sure that everyone that
has contributed to your site is “young”?
Wow, very very good questions!
“Do you have a cut off point at which you won’t accept articles?”
Er… good question! No I don’t. I originally envisaged the site aimed for
women aged in their 30s and below but I have never set a strict cut off point
on that. I’ve always thought being flexible and taking each submission as it
comes is a better way to do things. For example, an older woman responded to
an article I wrote about ageing and her response was so interesting that I
thought it would be good to publish. She was aged 45 and from the U.S.! So
she fell down on two of my “criteria” and yet I thought what she said was so
interesting that younger women would be interested in what she said. Her
article is here.
“if so, how do you know what a person’s age is?”
I don’t! I’ve never asked any of my contributers or subscribers how old they
are. I think I would just take it on trust. There’s no way I could ever find
out truthfully, even if I wanted to, because it would be impossible as you
rightly point out! Same thing with whether they’re from the UK or not – it’s
difficult to tell unless their email address says .uk on it!
Me and my partner are both feminists. She is 45. Is that too old to make a
useful contribution to the F-Word? As a woman, she knows how discrimination
feels, now that she is older she is beginning to experience age discrimination
as well. I dread to think what it must be like for “older” non-“white”
If she would like to contribute something, please by all means she is welcome
to email me and run it by me. I think once you’ve read what follows this will
BTW: I have looked at the F-Word and think it is an excellent site.
Thank you v. much! :-)
It’s a pity you are excluding such a large group from being part of it. This
does feel very much like discrimination. It seems to support the view that
pigeon holes “older” feminists, believing they have nothing more to offer.
I am sorry that you feel that way and I suppose it was my own fault for the
way I phrased my “advert”. Please believe me when I say that I absolutely do
not believe that older feminists have nothing to offer. I would be really sad
if I thought that people saw my website as a rejection of older feminists. I
do respect older feminists very much. If anything, I think I am slightly
more likely to *defend* them against arguments by young women that (for
example that they are boring, conservative, etc).
I guess it might help if I try to explain why my site is aimed at young
As a young woman from the UK I have been constantly told by the media and
from other sources that young, UK women have rejected feminism, that they
despise the word, that they are repulsed by it, that they think it’s uncool
and pathetic. As a young woman who does call myself a feminist, I feel alone
in many ways because of this. Added to this, I do not come from an academic
feminist background, I do not belong to a feminist circle and I personally
don’t know anyone who identifies as a feminist; it is literally just me
reaching out to other people. for this reason, when I set up this site one of
my main aims was to connect with my peers who felt the same way and say to
them – hey, you are not alone!
I had also read a LOT of stuff from the U.S. about what young women over
there have been doing:
- in books like Manifesta, To Be Real, Listen Up, Young Wives Tales, Turbo
Chicks(that last one is Canadian!)
- in magazines like Bust, Bitch and other zines
- in websites and ezines
- and I have been really interested in the debates going on between young
feminists and older feminists, the disagreements and discussions.
Yet when I looked over to my own home, the UK, there seemed to be so much
lacking in comparison. The U.S. young women had forged a collective identity
as young feminists – they even have a name for it: thirdwave! they had
magazines, mailing lists, and websites by the dozen but over here I could see
nothing. That’s why I decided to set up my website.
Admittedly, there was little that was just plain *feminist* in the UK
(whether young or old) so I could have decided to make a general feminist
website. As far as I am aware there isn’t anything out there like my site for
young *or* old feminists in the UK so you could argue that I should have made
it for all ages. However there were specific reasons why I wanted a space for
- To give young women a space where they can express their views
- To enable young feminists to share ideas together – when this opportunity
is usually so rare
- To enable young women to find their voice, to encourage them to express
themselves and develop if they have not had this chance before
- To find out more about young women who are producing zines, who are
involved with the riot grrrl movement, what’s known as ‘girlie’ feminism, or
- To find out what other people my age are thinking and doing about
- To say to the world – we are young and feminist and we
*exist*! In other words, to contradict the viewpoint that young women do not
care about feminism!
In general I see my focus on young women as a *positive* thing, encouraging
young women and enabling them to be able to identify as feminists together.
Being young and feminist in the UK, you kind of feel like a freak and alone
(!), so I thought that showing that there were others out there like me/you
was a good thing to do. After all I suppose we will be the next feminist
I suppose you could see it in a very negative way as discrimination or
excluding and I am really sorry if some people see it that way. I guess it
just depends on how you look at it.
It is for these reasons that I say the site is aimed at young women – but
this is flexible and I rely on my judgement in each case. I think I should
stay true to this though. For example if the site was flooded by
contributions from older women or from men, it wouldn’t be there for the
reason I set it up. I take each contribution as it comes.
I have thought about these issues before as you can probably tell! You are
probably right that I would get a lot more contributions if it was aimed at
all ages – that’s what is so frustrating! But I do think it is important for
young women to encourage and support each other. I have to add a disclaimer
and say that young women shouldn’t dismiss older feminists as they have a lot
to teach us, and vice-versa.
Maybe I could have an ‘older feminist’ issue in which older feminists can
‘take over’ The F-Word and all the contributions would be from them. That
would be a really interesting idea although at the minute I don’t think I’d
have enough contributions to make it work! I am desperate for contributions
as it is!
Perhaps I am going about this the wrong way, I don’t know. I’ll see how it
goes though. I’ve always said it’s flexible, like an experiment. I’ll see
where this website takes me and play it by ear.
I hope I have explained myself to you and I hope that you can
understand my reasons a bit better! It’s been very difficult trying to
articulate my reasons and I’ve spent ages on this reply.
Your email has really made me think. I wonder whether it would be worth
asking the readers of my website what they think as well. I could post up
your email and my reply and ask for others to respond as well and say what
they think. I would be interested to know if the readers agree with you, or
if they have any other thoughts to add. What do you think?
Maybe I should add a FAQ on my site to address questions like this.
Let me know what you think.
Thank you for your reply Catherine. I can see the points you are making
and that you have thought this through very carefully. I still however,
feel that you are discriminating in a negative way. I would much prefer
to see an F-word web site aimed at *all* feminists. You can always
include positive articles and marketing aimed at younger feminists that
could help to resolve some of the issues you are raising. It just feels
a bit like “them and us”. I really hate any kind of discrimination (as
you will have obviously noticed :-) from my e-mails).
Yes, I do think asking your readers and contributors would be a good
idea. It would be helpful to know if I (and my partner) are just being
too sensitive about our age. Although, she feels life really is
beginning to pass her by as even people she felt she could relate to, i.
e. feminists, appear to be discounting her.
BTW, you are also potentially missing out on an awful lot of stuff that
only affects “older” women, in the feminist context, e.g.
discrimination re. fertility treatment after a certain age, how men
treat women going through the menopause, the affects of loss of hair on
women’s self esteem, etc. etc. All things that “young” feminists will
have to face some time.
So, what do you think? Please contact
me with your thoughts and I’ll update this page next time.