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<title>Lynne Miles commented on &quot;11th International Transgender Day Of Remembrance, 20th November 2009&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[<a title="http://www.thefword.org.uk/blog" href="http://www.thefword.org.uk/blog" rel="nofollow">Lynne Miles</a> said: Thanks for writing this, Helen. My thoughts are with the loved ones of the victims.  ]]>
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<title>Elmo commented on &quot;Guest Post: Misfits and rape culture&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[Elmo said: With regards to people defending the show because its a reflection of peoples real lives, i dont think this is the point.
Her sexual confidence was part of her personality (not an insecurity), and now its being turned against her- ie &quot;slutty women deserve rape&quot;-  &quot;confident, were you? Well, see how you like this! You&apos;ll think twice about flirting with men again!&quot; Thats the vibe I get from it. If the guy who felt ignored goes invisible, how is a women who has no problem with displaying her sexuality suddenly facing rape on an equal par to him? His power reflects an insecurity, hers doesn&apos;t. It just comes across as a women being punished for her sexuality. And if she does become confident, and start to use her power to control men, then isn&apos;t that also incredibly sexist-once again the female part is reduced to sex object. Whether she is a confident sex object or not, its beside the point. Imagine if a guy had been given the power to seduce women, control them etc-wouldn&apos;t that come across as creepy and manipulative? The only reflection of real life i see hear is this attitude that confident women are sluts who deserve to be punished. 

I still think it looks better than skins, though. ]]>
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<title>zohra commented on &quot;11th International Transgender Day Of Remembrance, 20th November 2009&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[<a title="http://www.thefword.org.uk/blog/" href="http://www.thefword.org.uk/blog/" rel="nofollow">zohra</a> said: powerful piece Helen. solidarity.]]>
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<title>gadgetgal commented on &quot;A Tweet Too Far?&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[gadgetgal said: @EKSwitaj

I&apos;m sorry if I came across as dismissive, that certainly wasn&apos;t my intention at all. And you&apos;re right, the important thing here is about other people&apos;s reactions to her discussing it, not why she might have done it. Thanks for pointing me back in the right direction:)

I think it would be better if we felt more able to talk about things like abortion and miscarriage openly, and not be made to feel like you&apos;ve done something wrong because you do. I&apos;ve had to be careful who I say anything to, I actually saw one of my friends recoil in horror when I told him. I&apos;ve been made to feel stupid and selfish and morally low at a time when what I needed was someone to talk to. And not just to state to them what happened, but to talk about the horrible icky stuff as well that you never tell anyone. Because you feel you can&apos;t. So I support Penelope Trunk rather than her detractors - maybe it&apos;ll start people talking, like it has here!]]>
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<title>Rita commented on &quot;A Tweet Too Far?&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[Rita said: I must admit that my first reaction to reading that tweet was, &apos; how blunt&apos;. And was taken aback. But this reminds me of a story my lecturer told us about a woman who went into therapy, told her therapist that she had got a divorce and immediately the therapist said, &apos;you must feel upset&apos;. The client said was feeling ecstatic.

Anyway, my point i guess is that there is stigma attached to these subjects that when one is so direct, it hits some of us hard. Honestly, i would not tweet it myself, simply because i&apos;m very private. But i guess, in any case someone would share the experience with someone else, the only difference is that this lady was on twitter and very honest about it.]]>
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<title>polly commented on &quot;A Tweet Too Far?&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[polly said: Caitlin Moran wrote a brilliant piece on the pressure on women to feel guilty about abortion here

http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/comment/columnists/caitlin_moran/article1645946.ece]]>
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<title>Polly commented on &quot;A Tweet Too Far?&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[Polly said: &quot;&quot;&quot;A lot of my &apos;friends&apos; on facebook are people who have added me after only one or two meetings, and who I don&apos;t know very well. &quot;&quot;&quot;

This may be the case Hannah, but surely you made the choice to add those people as friends, as followers of penelope trunk made the choice to follow her. We often read of celebrities putting personal information on Twitter (Stephen Fry springs to mind). We don&apos;t ever hear of Fry being castigated for talking about his mental health do we?

I think Trunk was castigated because she expressed a sentiment it isn&apos;t acceptable for a woman to express - relief that she was no longer pregnant. Even women who have abortions are meant to display regret, not relief. ]]>
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<title>EKSwitaj commented on &quot;A Tweet Too Far?&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[<a title="http://www.elizabehtkateswitaj.net" href="http://www.elizabehtkateswitaj.net" rel="nofollow">EKSwitaj</a> said: As a woman who is, like Ms. Trunk, an Aspie I get very frustrated with the commenters here (and at her own blog) who have attributed the difference in notions of propriety largely to her Aspergers. I realize that you probably think you are being empathetic, but it comes across as dismissive. Rather than considering the very legitimate reasons why such things can and should be discussed irrespective of the neurologies of the people involved, you are happy to classify it as difficulty with socialization.]]>
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<title>Nicola commented on &quot;Guest Post: Misfits and rape culture&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[Nicola said: &quot;Their powers are supposed to to be part of their personalities and insecrurities. Does Alisha look happy when her power is accidentilly used on Simon and Curtis? No, of course not.&quot; 

Thank you -C-, i was about to say the same thing.

I have also looked around the E4/Misfits site and it would seem she only gets that reaction from men because she doesn&apos;t know the full extent of her power. So far she has only discovered it has that effect on men, but in clips of future shows it shows her controlling it more and shows her power is possibly of persuation, perhaps she only wanted to feel lusted after and that is how that first reaction came about.

Remember that at this point in the series no one knows how to control their power.

With that being said the writers could have portrayed this differently, maybe they were going for a shock value, who knows.]]>
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<title>irina commented on &quot;A Tweet Too Far?&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[irina said: &quot;But if you have miscarried a wanted child, I can imagine how awful it would be to read it&quot;.

I&apos;d disagree. it is being over-sensitive out of fear of upsetting somebody. 

A woman who had miscariage wouldn&apos;t necesserily care or offended if another woman, a total stranger to her, would have a miscarriage and would be relieved about it - any more that I, who had an abortion, am not offended when a friend decided to carry on with her unplanned pregnancy. Somebody else&apos;s situation is not necesserly a personal affront to you. ]]>
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<title>BareNakedLady commented on &quot;A Tweet Too Far?&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[BareNakedLady said: Hannah: &quot;I&apos;m willing to be persuaded otherwise if you don&apos;t think my argument&apos;s any good.&quot;

I just had to post to say that I love that you said that.  It&apos;s so refreshing.  I am as guilty as the next person of sometimes forgetting that my own opinion could and should be able to change, as well as trying to change other people&apos;s, and the bullheaded &apos;You have to back down because I am right&apos; mentality is seen so often on internet blogs and the like.  The Fword blog is no more (in fact a lot less) guilty of this than most sites, but it still is so cool to see someone be that open, and I just had to applaud you.  Nice one.]]>
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<title>gadgetgal commented on &quot;A Tweet Too Far?&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[gadgetgal said: @Hannah - I think you make a fair point - I have a few friends who aren&apos;t really &quot;friends&quot; as such, so I&apos;m careful (ish) too. But I don&apos;t take it offensively when other people want to post about their grottier moments, that&apos;s up to them, and I still think the subject matter played a big part in why a lot of people did find it offensive. There were a lot of factors at play here, it would be tricky to try and pin it down on one thing only.

@Kate - I think the Aspergers could have played a bigger part than has been mentioned too. One of my young relatives is autistic, and I know from first-hand experience that he doesn&apos;t necessarily understand the social mores we all take for granted - he says or does things most people wouldn&apos;t, and then doesn&apos;t say or do things when most people would! I know Aspergers tends to have less noticeable symptoms than my nephew&apos;s autism, but the difficulty in socialisation is still one of the things that affects both quite severely.]]>
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<title>Kate commented on &quot;A Tweet Too Far?&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[Kate said: Hannah, that&apos;s your interpretation of netiquette. Personally it&apos;s one I follow for my own social networking sites, but I recognise that people differ. If Ms Trunk is in the habit of tweeting every moment or thought of her day than why shouldn&apos;t she send an update about this one too. But the acres of postings that have been generated across the web about it indicates people do not see it as on a par with posting about shin splints.

Incidentally, Ms Trunk has aspergers so she may well have a different sense of propiety in any case.

In a general sense I fully support anyone who wants to talk about their experiences of miscarriage, abortion or birth, especially if they don&apos;t fit with how we&apos;re supposed to think/talk about these things. ]]>
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<title>earwicga commented on &quot;11th International Transgender Day Of Remembrance, 20th November 2009&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[earwicga said: I can only echo sianmarie.  Terrible things happen in the name of ignorance and thanks for helping me lose mine.]]>
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<title>Hannah commented on &quot;A Tweet Too Far?&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[Hannah said: This was a good post and I agree with most of what was said, but I disagree with your take on the second point. Perhaps I&apos;m not going to make myself any friends here by saying this, but I don&apos;t think it was an appropriate thing to put in a tweet.  Before people rip me to shreds please let me explain! I&apos;m willing to be persuaded otherwise if you don&apos;t think my argument&apos;s any good. In the post you only consider one explanation of why people thought the tweet was inappropriate, which was that they were afraid or disgusted by &apos;women only&apos; subjects and thought these ought to be kept secret, but there&apos;s another explanation that seems more obvious to me, one which also relates to the blending of the public and private on sites like twitter and facebook. 

A lot of my &apos;friends&apos; on facebook are people who have added me after only one or two meetings, and who I don&apos;t know very well. I try not to say on facebook things I wouldn&apos;t say to someone in person, and since it just isn&apos;t appropriate to complain about period pain or some non gender-specific problem, shin splints, migraine, whatever, to a person you&apos;ve just met - mainly because you look a bit whiny and will bore them - it&apos;s perhaps inadvisable to say it on facebook or twitter. I think what went wrong here wasn&apos;t that Trunk talked about something inappropriate, as I&apos;m all for normalising these subjects as topics of discussion, but her mistake was the very easy one of forgetting how public a platform a status update or a tweet is. I hope I&apos;ve made the distinction clearly enough!]]>
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<title>Holly Combe commented on &quot;Transcribers wanted&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[Holly Combe said: Thanks bint alshamsa and tkarin. This is great... I&apos;m going to set up a Google, Yahoo or Facebook group for transcribers/access advisors so you can all know who&apos;s doing what when we put in a request...]]>
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<title>tkarin commented on &quot;Transcribers wanted&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[tkarin said: I admit I&apos;m not familiar with the issues involved, but I&apos;m a fast typist and more than happy to give a little of my time where it&apos;s needed.]]>
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<title>Jooty commented on &quot;Guest Post: Misfits and rape culture&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[Jooty said: She has the power to instantly ruin any mans life. She could overthrow governments or cause a judge in a court room to be placed in prison for rape.

Its not a traditional superpower, its an equally devastating one.]]>
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<title>gadgetgal commented on &quot;A Tweet Too Far?&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[gadgetgal said: This is a subject quite close to my heart - I&apos;ve had two abortions and two miscarriages and either way it&apos;s painful. But one thing that made the pain that little bit worse was the difference in attitude to having had an abortion. Although my friends were sympathetic, on the whole I didn&apos;t get the same level of support I received for either miscarriage, and although it&apos;s hard to compare four very different pregnancies with varying problems, I&apos;d have to say the second abortion I had was the worst, and I could have done with more help that time.

I completely agree that the big problem is people not being able to talk about it.  But another big problem is the difference in attitudes towards abortion and miscarriage - I&apos;m still made to feel that I don&apos;t have the right to say &quot;when I was pregnant&quot; if I&apos;m referring to my abortions, but I can if it&apos;s referring to the miscarriages. And I have to say that that attitude includes a number of pro-choice people too - as much as the anti-abortion people want to deny me my right to talk about it because they think it&apos;s wrong, I think it still makes a lot of pro-choice people uncomfortable because it brings up the issue of pregnancy and babies, which can be difficult for them too.

There was an interesting article on the mothersforwomenslib website about questions that hurt which ties in nicely with this article - there they were exploring how people asking intrusive reproductive questions can hurt and that people really shouldn&apos;t unless the information is offered. But its good that here you presented the flip side of that, which is if the information IS offered there isn&apos;t anything bad or wrong about that, in fact it can be a good thing, and no one should be made to feel that they shouldn&apos;t. It&apos;s a personal choice for everyone.]]>
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<title>sianmarie commented on &quot;11th International Transgender Day Of Remembrance, 20th November 2009&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[<a title="http://www.sianandcrookedrib.blogspot.com" href="http://www.sianandcrookedrib.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow">sianmarie</a> said: thanks for such a moving post. and, in general, thanks to Helen G and the F word for posting regularly on trans issues, it has really helped me investigate, learn more and understand my cis-privilege, something that i (shamefacedly) hadn&apos;t really considered before. 
thoughts are with you on this day. ]]>
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<title>saranga commented on &quot;Transcribers wanted&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[<a title="http://www.paiwings.blogspot.com" href="http://www.paiwings.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow">saranga</a> said: i think any bsl addition, even a late one, would be good.  if you need to find someone try contacting your local deaf centre, or local deaf association, or signature.org.uk who have info on how to find an interpreter on their site, or any local colleges/unis around you that offer bsl level 4 courses.]]>
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<title>polly commented on &quot;A Tweet Too Far?&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[polly said: I&apos;m not on Twittter, but AFAIK, people have to sign up to &apos;follow&apos; you. So why on earth did this story make the Male, the Grauniad etc, etc, etc. 

Yes I&apos;m sure women who&apos;ve had miscarriages may have been upset by it, but they would only have known about it if they were twitter followers of Penelope Trunk, had it not been repeated by all media outlets, everywhere. 

The other point is that, distressing as miscarriage is, women are not under an obligation to other women to have attitudes to their own fertility that don&apos;t upset them. I know someone who has had several miscarriages who thinks that this gives her the right to lambast other women for having abortions. It doesn&apos;t. Penelope Trunk&apos;s attitude to her own fertility is basically her business and no one else&apos;s, because it&apos;s HER body. ]]>
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<title>earwicga commented on &quot;Guest Post: Misfits and rape culture&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[earwicga said: 7 minutes in and sexual assualt jokes abounding.  ]]>
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<title>Victoria  commented on &quot;A Tweet Too Far?&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[Victoria  said: Thank you for such a great post on this subject. I have always been a passionate supporter of abortion rights, even though all of my pregnancies have been wanted. My first pregnancy ended in miscarriage and I was extremely upset, but what upset me even more was others attempting to appropriate the feelings of women such as myself to promote an anti-choice agenda. I remember reading something along the lines of &quot;try telling a woman who&apos;s miscarried that it&apos;s not a baby&quot; and thinking a) I wouldn&apos;t dare compare my grief to that of a parent whose child had died and b) neither would I selfishly project my own sense of loss onto others who have their own feelings about their pregnancies and their bodies. Not carrying a baby to term the first time did make me bitter, but it didn&apos;t make me lose my entire moral compass.
You are absolutely right that it&apos;s important that miscarriage can be talked about freely and openly. One thing that annoyed me in the aftermath of my loss was ever having followed the &quot;twelve week rule&quot;, whereby you&apos;re not meant to tell anyone you&apos;re pregnant as long as the risk of miscarriage is high. Sure, the secrecy spares others embarassment if things go wrong and allows them to never have engaged with your pregnancy as a real thing. But it reinforces the impression that miscarriage is rare, even though it&apos;s incredibly common, and allows people to dismiss the physical and psychological complexities of women&apos;s reproductive lives. 
Ultimately I think there&apos;s a cruel, crude mythology surrounding these issues along the lines of full-term pregnancy = real pregnancy and real baby, abortion = no pregnancy (just &quot;inconvenience&quot;) but real baby (that you &quot;murdered&quot;), miscarriage = nothing (woe betide any woman who&apos;s had a miscarriage to say &quot;when I was pregnant ...&quot;. It embarrasses the hell out of everyone). 
I really appreciate Penelope Trunk for bringing so much of this out into the open. I now have two lovely children and no, unlike Julia Black, Miranda Sawyer, Naomi Wolf and no doubt other feminists whose attitude to abortion proved bizarrely unthinking until they had a twelve-week scan, having successful pregnancies did not make me question the right of others to feel and act differently. It just made me feel lucky that things worked out for me and that I&apos;ve had to suffer neither an unwanted pregnancy nor unwanted infertility. But clearly, in the minds of others, god forbid that what happens in women&apos;s own bodies is ever to do with what they might actually want. 
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<title>Feminist Avatar commented on &quot;A Tweet Too Far?&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[<a title="http://letterbyafeminist.blogspot.com/" href="http://letterbyafeminist.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">Feminist Avatar</a> said: &apos;Feminist menstruation&apos; or something of that nature is consistently one of the top google searches that brings people to my blog. And I only have one post on this. It clearly is a topic that women want to talk about (or at least read about!) ]]>
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<title>Philippa Willitts commented on &quot;A Tweet Too Far?&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[<a title="http://www.rebelgrrlzine.co.uk" href="http://www.rebelgrrlzine.co.uk" rel="nofollow">Philippa Willitts</a> said: Thanks for that link earwicga, it&apos;s a great post on the subject.]]>
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<title>bint alshamsa commented on &quot;Transcribers wanted&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[<a title="http://bintalshamsa.blogspot.com/" href="http://bintalshamsa.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">bint alshamsa</a> said: I&apos;m a person with disabilities and disability rights advocate, so I guess you could say that I have a bit of experience with accessibility issues. I also have a significant bit of time I could devote to doing this effort. I&apos;d love to have the opportunity to do this for my deaf/HOH sisters and brothers and anyone else who could benefit from transcriptions.]]>
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<title>earwicga commented on &quot;A Tweet Too Far?&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[earwicga said: Definately not a tweet to far - in fact very pertinent considering the circumstances.  

There was a good post on LC too:  http://www.liberalconspiracy.org/2009/11/06/have-we-no-shame/ (with the obvious moron male comments following it).]]>
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<title>Holly Combe commented on &quot;Transcribers wanted&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[Holly Combe said: Thanks for that suggestion, Saranga. Getting a trainee in sounds like a good idea to follow up. We need to move quite fast with the blog so that posts don&apos;t date and I imagine there might be issues with timing. However, even a late BSL addition to a post would be better than not doing it at all and, in the long run, I would hope we could find a way round that.]]>
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<![CDATA[<a title="http://www.paiwings.blogspot.com" href="http://www.paiwings.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow">saranga</a> said: I don&apos;t suppose you&apos;ve considered using BSL interpreters for any videos have you?
For people for whom BSL is their first language, subtitles aren&apos;t neccessarily much use.
I realise that interpreters are expensive but you may be able to find a trainee interpreter who would be willing to do it for free, if they could use it as part of their portfolio for becoming accredited.]]>
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<title>Nora Russell commented on &quot;Sponsor a girl with Plan UK&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[Nora Russell said: Laura, unless the charity are allocating the funds from sponsoring a child directly to the child (which is pretty unethical, as it favours somechildren over others) then all money should be being pooled and spent on individual projects that are supported by the charity, in your example an orphange. 
Sponsoring a girl basically drives funds to support female empowerment projects, such as schoolarships for girls education etc. World vision shouldn&apos;t be struggling to provide for boys, but may be struggling to match the boys to sponsors in the UK. Sponsoring a Girl, lifts her status in the community, letters from sponsors encourage her to stay in school and give her confidence in her abilities. These are things that boys get just for being born boys in most countries.  ]]>
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<title>Holly Combe commented on &quot;Transcribers wanted&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[Holly Combe said: Thanks Kez, Earwigca, Tamasine and Rachael. Will be in touch with more details...]]>
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<title>Rachael commented on &quot;Transcribers wanted&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[Rachael said: I wouldn&apos;t be much help with providing transcription but I&apos;m happy to help with testing site accessibility where I can.]]>
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<title>Elmo commented on &quot;New piece on CiF - &apos;Population control is not what makes climate change a feminist issue&apos;&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[Elmo said: The times story was sadly also filled with comments such as &quot;But MY girlfriend uses a hairdryer! so she MUST contribute more!&quot; grrrrr

ur welcome :)]]>
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<title>Jess McCabe commented on &quot;New piece on CiF - &apos;Population control is not what makes climate change a feminist issue&apos;&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[<a title="http://sugarcrash.co.uk/" href="http://sugarcrash.co.uk/">Jess McCabe</a> said: @Elmo Thanks! I&apos;ve seen some coverage of this, but haven&apos;t had a chance to read the report - based on the Times story, though, sadly this is another study arguing that &apos;population control&apos; is the answer :/]]>
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<![CDATA[Elmo said: Well AllyF et al, if you would care to look at the Google news headlines today, you will see that this issue is a big topic-and guess what? It seems Jess was right.

http://news.google.co.uk/news/more?pz=1&amp;cf=all&amp;ned=uk&amp;ncl=dNSQpW-sXwUo2oMv3F7Haby-kuYVM&amp;topic=w
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<title>Tamasine commented on &quot;Transcribers wanted&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[Tamasine said: I used to take notes for a blind student at university - apparently he found my descriptions of pictures really good, so I wouldn&apos;t mind helping out :)]]>
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<![CDATA[earwicga said: Ok, well I have quick accurate typing, but no other experience so can do basic stuff if you need me :)]]>
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<title>Kez commented on &quot;Transcribers wanted&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[Kez said: I don&apos;t have much time, but I do have fast typing skills and a knowledge of accessibility issues. So I could do a little, if needed.]]>
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<title>Holly Combe commented on &quot;Transcribers wanted&quot;</title>
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<![CDATA[Holly Combe said: Thanks Anna and Katie :-)

@Earwicga: Just quick accurate typing would be brilliant but some knowledge of accessibility issues and the kind of experience Katie Fry describes would be a bonus. (@cim: Quixotess was our first potential lead and we&apos;re already hoping she can help but thanks for mentioning her anyway!)]]>
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