You look fine. You really do. All of you.
Philippa Willitts // 6 July 2010
It is no longer enough to hate your breasts, face, stomach, legs, nose, ears and lips enough to get them sliced and diced or injected with poison. It’s no longer enough to have society tell you that your body is so very unacceptable that you should risk your life having major surgery in order to make it fit patriarchal ‘rules’ about thinness, pertness, tightness, hairlessness and perfection.
Now, you have to apply the same thinking to your vagina. Are the muscles stretched? Are your labia too big – or too small? Is your mons pubis too big – or too small? Ditto clitoris. Well, you can have those cut up too.
That article actually says,
So, if you or your partner is not satisfied with your vagina, a rejuvenation procedure can work wonders.
Your partner? If s/he is not happy with your vagina, that is entirely their problem! And is not ever a good reason for you to have it chopped up. In fact, if they are criticising your vulva or vagina, they certainly don’t deserve you.
Amy Clare’s review of a Channel 4 programme about ‘designer vaginas’ is worth reading.
I have had surgery twice this year, and the fear and pain associated with them made me think a lot about, and seriously question, why people would put themselves through that voluntarily. Just how strong are society’s pressures, that they cause women to go through massive pain and lots of health risks, to get a smoother face or less saggy boobs?
When a woman chooses to have cosmetic surgery, I feel sad. Until we live in a society where what we look like is not used to oppress us, I question how much free choice we ever really have to make these decisions.