Weekly round-up and open thread
Chella Quint // 5 January 2015
Hello, F Word readers, and Happy 2015! Welcome to the first weekly round-up and open thread of the year. Below are some recent news stories that caught the attention of The F Word Collective this week (linking does not necessarily imply endorsement or agreement by members of the collective or the author of this post).
Please note that these links range from “ooh yay!” to “oy vey” and some articles may be triggering. Want to discuss these topics or add your own? Please share this post, and comment below!
The first round up of the year begins with tales from Online Dating that cannot be ignored – today…
This Woman Schooled A Man On OkCupid After He Accused Her Of Lying In Her Bio: Natalie Guest is a writer from London who recently had an exchange on OkCupid with a man who thought she was lying in her bio. He literally didn’t believe she could type 100 words per minute. BuzzFeed News spoke to the woman who proved him wrong. (Buzzfeed)
And speaking of detailed online dating profile questions…
(That Pesky Feminist)
Here is a triptych of recent stories about media representation:
Awesome Images of Queer Women in History (Tagg Magazine, via Everyday Feminism)
Sophie Aldred’s Ace was a Doctor Who companion ahead of her time. We look back at the girl from Perivale’s time in the TARDIS… (Den of Geek)
Some intersectional discrimination in academia:
‘Philosophy is for posh, white boys with trust funds’ – why are there so few women? Over 70% of philosophers in UK universities are men. We speak to academics about how institutions can become more inclusive (The Guardian)
It’s been particularly hard to read and talk about Leelah Alcorn’s story at a time of year when a lot of friends and family are reluctantly having to spend time with (or having to choose to avoid) unsupportive or unsafe relatives at the holidays.
Stavvers has done an excellent link round up on her blog: Remembering Leelah Alcorn: a round-up of links This post includes a content note, which I echo: “Content warning: This post mentions and links to content discussing transmisogyny and suicide.” – Stavvers (Another Angry Woman)
And here are three additional and insightful links
Leelah Alcorn’s death was a suicide. Her suicide note along with her account were scrubbed from Tumblr, but the note and other posts have been preserved thanks to the blessed powers of the Internet. Look in the comments on any story about Leelah Alcorn and you’ll see poorly directed sympathy. (Jezebel)
Religious Abuse I’ve tried to write this post many, many times and I never manage it because there are parts of my past I still find too desperately painful to write about. But right now I’m seeing both atheists blaming Christianity (or more often “religion”) as a whole for the tragic and avoidable death of Leelah Alcorn and Christians insisting Leelah and others like her could be saved if they only found a different (but still Christian) church or community to be part of, that they ones they are in aren’t “real” Christians and real Christians will love and accept trans youth for who they are… And I need to say something. (Yet Another Lefty)
Three further notable obituaries posted last week:
Christine Buckley: a 21st century Irish hero State child abuse campaigner rose above the grim hand fate dealt her to become an icon (Irish Times)
Here are two articles that focus on body image:
Why I’m giving up the razor I have an almost 12 year old daughter, she is reaching the age where the usual puberty changes are happening, there are boobs and hormonal mood swings and there is the hair… Sprouting from armpits, legs and you know, everywhere. (So Bad Ass)
This is a great article all about accessibility in public spaces and online spaces:
Why Do You Fight Accessibility? When issues of accessibility are raised — in physical environments, online, in the design of homes, restaurants, public spaces, websites, books, classrooms — the response is often defensive. Justifications for inaccessibility spill out of endlessly running mouths, there’s always a good reason (or seven), there’s a sense of needing to swat down any request, of triumph when the list of reasons is trotted out and presented. You see, it’s simply impossible. (This Ain’t Livin’)
Breaking: Congrats to Kate Saunders for winning the Costa Children’s Book of the Year with a sequel to E Nesbit’s Five Children and It. The new book is called Five Children on the Western Front, and it looks excellent:
Costa Prize Winner Kate Saunders: ‘I couldn’t have written this book if I hadn’t lost my own boy’ Kate Saunders’s son Felix committed suicide in 2012. A year later she began to write Five Children on the Western Front, a children’s book about the First World War (The Telegraph)
If one of your new year’s resolutions is to reclaim space, check out:
I Spread My Legs on the Subway to Prove An Important Point (Identities Mic)
If another resolution is NOT anything to do with wasting hours on the internet staring at pictures of kittens, then this related (and admittedly older and well travelled) link is for you: http://savingroomforcats.tumblr.com.
some news in science to start the year off right:
New fanged frog ‘gives birth to tadpoles’ Best quote: “They’re relatively dull frogs, actually,” Mr Tapley told BBC News. “To find out something totally surprising about a frog you would barely notice in the forest is really cool.” (BBC NEWS)
Hope 2015 evolves into a good year for everyone.
Photo description: The photo is by Chella Quint and has been used with permission: all rights reserved. It depicts tall orange flowers of the Bird of Paradise variety in bloom in the Sheffield Winter Gardens. They really do look like a flock of birds in a puppetry sort of way – it is uncanny – and they are quite lovely.